Thoughts About Followers

The rebellious nature of teens is betrayed by their desire to copy their peers’ fashions. My sociology professor said something to that effect one day in class. The thought has remained with me all of my adult life. He did not intend the statement as an insult, it was part of the day’s lesson.

The instructor pointed out that we students were part of the generation that was protesting almost every institution and every authority figure imaginable. He was correct. Not only did we protest the war in Southeast Asia, there was the sexual revolution going on at the same time. Liberation movements were the thing. Minority groups were becoming more assertive, as well.

The professor’s lesson came to mind yesterday while I was waiting in line to pay at the local Walgreen’s store. I couldn’t help overhearing two youth’s conversing about the current state of national politics these days. The popular word “sheeple” was used a few times during the discussion. That word stuck in my craw.

Why are we such sheeple, or followers? Why do so many of us put so much stock in authority figures, politicians, and pop stars? Why are we such conformists?

The sociology professor was correct. While we were out protesting the status quo, most of us donned tattered blue jeans and wore our hair long. In effect we were wearing a uniform of non-conformity. The irony of that was not only amusing, but frustrating as well.

Of course, the Woodstock generation hasn’t been the only group of young people to follow the crowd. Our parents’ and grandparents’ generations had their own fads. The kids who were born after us follow their own trends. The urge to follow the crowd is almost irresistible.

There are upsides and downsides of being followers. We are able to have nations, tribes, and families because of this urge. We also fall prey to authoritarians, cults, and malevolent gangs.

Is this behavior based on some sort of instinct, or do we follow because that’s what we were taught?

Unless we’ve been abandoned and become feral humans, we cannot escape early conditioning by at least one parent figure. This training is necessary in order for us to function as human beings in a social context. This continues in kindergarten when we learn how to play king of the hill and follow the leader. It is during school that we learn to obey non-parental authority. We do what the teacher tells us to do, or we will be punished in some way.

It is during our school years that we coalesce into cliques or groups of friends. This is when the motives for following become more ambiguous. Perhaps the child is attracted to the clique that forms around the “popular kid”. Similarly, maybe the child wants to be part of a group because she does not want to be left out, on her own. Then there is the aspect of shunning. We hate to be left “out in the cold”, alone. We are approval seeking creatures.

Herd mentality has been with our species all along, and will probably be an integral part of humanity in the future. If you observe others and yourself, you will see that the majority of people watch to see what others do, then follow their examples.

Being followers can have very dark consequences. One of the most infamous authority figures in history was Der Führer (the leader), Adolf Hitler. Millions of people passively followed him down the garden path of destruction and death. Even today, there are legions of neo-Nazi sheeple who worship Hitler’s evil persona. Aversion and hatred are harsh taskmasters.

On a lighter note, an example of follow the leader happened at a Democratic Party fund-raising event in Norfolk, Nebraska in 1993 that I attended. Former Nebraska Governor, Navy Seal, and Congressional Medal of Honor recipient, Bob Kerrey, was running for re-election to the U.S. Senate. There were several important local figures and dignified people in attendance who were dressed in suits and neckties for the occasion.

When Senator Kerrey walked into the meeting room, people noticed that he was not wearing a necktie. There was a soft murmuring around the room with the important community leaders whispering that they were going to remove their ties. I had to stifle the urge to laugh as I observed various “big shots” remove their neckties, roll them up, and place them in their pockets. That is the only thing I remember about the fund-raiser. I wonder what was going through Mr. Kerrey’s mind as he watched the men removing their ties.

Regardless of our own self-images of being dependent or being independent, some part of us will compel us to be followers. The important thing to do is to pay attention to when we follow and when we go our own ways.

Ciao
The Blue Jay of Happiness quotes Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart. “I pay no attention whatever to anybody’s praise or blame. I simply follow my own feelings.”

About swabby429

An eclectic guy who likes to observe the world around him and comment about those observations.
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9 Responses to Thoughts About Followers

  1. Doug says:

    I never really liked to “follow”. In the words of the group, “Fleetwood Mac”…….You can go your own way.

  2. So true! Isn’t it amazing that a small comment like the one from your professor sticks with you for the rest of your life, causing reflection, even all these years later. My 6th grade visiting student teacher (a man, and the first man-teacher I’d ever had), said something I have never forgotten. We were in the Los Angeles area, and he said that “ours” was the only place in the nation that had no spoken accent. He explained that because of Hollywood and the media coming out of Los Angeles, our regional accent had become the nationally accepted accent. (Another tidbit I’ve thought of throughout the years.) And truly, accents have toned down all across our nation. Too bad! I loved hearing the rich, melodic accents from the all-over-the-nation kids at the church camp I attended in Colorado in 1970/71. It added much flavor, and a touch of American magic :)) Dawn

    Including here a post you might enjoy —

    https://soulhorseride.wordpress.com/2017/05/04/time-traveler/

    • swabby429 says:

      It’s interesting that your student teacher said that the Hollywood and general media accent originates in L.A.. I had a speech instructor say the very same thing about the “lack” of accent originates is a special phenomenon in the central area of the Midwest. For instance think of Johnny Carson who grew up in Norfolk, Nebraska, to name just one Midwesterner who transplanted both to New York City, then to Los Angeles. This view was bolstered by the presence of so many Midwesterners in the field of broadcasting and film on both coasts. This tells me that we are very subjective beings.

      Thanks for the link.

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