Spirit Day 2020

Spirit Day is a commemoration originally created to recognize the disproportionate levels of bullying and harassment of  LGBTQ youth. It is a time for people of all gender identities and orientations to unite against bullying.

We recognize that regardless of orientation, bullying is a harmful, serious problem among youth. Lately, much of the intimidation and overt violence has been focused on transgender people (the “T” in LGBTQ). The bullying has been condoned and encouraged by certain politicians and members of the clergy. There has been a very alarming epidemic of assaults and murders of transgender people in the United States and many areas in the world. It does not appear that this trend will be subsiding anytime soon.

This issue is very personal to me. I understand the harm that bullying causes. I was bullied throughout much of my childhood. Piecing my life together and recovery has been a lifelong project. I’ve often wondered how I would have turned out if I had not had to focus so much time trying to build my self-esteem and confidence. During the process, I have forgiven the bullies of my childhood, but have not forgotten who they were.

When we are all acknowledged as equals, regardless of orientation, ethnicity, age, race, gender, and outward appearance, there will be no place for bullying. Sometimes it seems like that day is far off. Today, the retrograde in attitudes, laws, and civil rights has become worse. Those of us who have been bullied in the past and those of us who are still treated as “less than” are not relaxing our efforts. Today, Spirit Day, is a pep rally for all oppressed and minority youth.

It is also a time to remember people across the spectrum of society who are bullied on the Web, at work, or on the street. The bullying can be discriminatory or overtly violent. Bullying is as common as dirt, but it never should be viewed as normal. Youth are speaking out and taking action to support each other regardless of who they are. Spirit Day is a reminder of this.

Spirit Day is one day when members of the community and our allies pledge to go purple as one way to show solidarity with youth in the largest anti-bullying campaign in the world. People who observe Spirit Day wear a purple article of clothing or pin or ribbon. I’m wearing my purple polo shirt to show my support.


The Blue Jay of Happiness quotes the late film critic, screenwriter, and author, Roger Ebert. “Teaching prejudice to a child is itself a form of bullying. You’ve got to be taught to hate.”

About swabby429

An eclectic guy who likes to observe the world around him and comment about those observations.
This entry was posted in Controversy, cultural highlights, Youth and tagged , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.