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One of my big personal flaws is the tendency to hold grudges. This is something that was ingrained as a child due to many reasons. For nearly as long, I’ve known intellectually that holding grudges is unhealthy and can keep … Continue reading

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Grudges At Year-end

Grudges and me–the relationship is complicated. Grudges and resentments will sap a person’s drive and energy. They do nothing to prolong and enhance life. We’ve heard and read about how harmful grudges and resentments are. Practically every wisdom tradition and science … Continue reading

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To Reconcile

I once heard a  motivational speaker say something like this:  “Some people harbor so many grudges that their horizons are overlapped by their hair.”  As we build and expand our relationships we encounter friction and disagreements.  If we cannot get … Continue reading

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